Keys

Ok, key codes have been a pain in the posterior for many years but it seems as of late the situation has gotten worse. How do you guys handle giving out keys in the following situation?
1.Its my moms car and she cant come in.
2. Its in my husbands name and he cant come in.
I have been burned in both situations, where the real owner (mom and the EX-husband) were upset that keys were given out.
We have required that the OWNER come in with picture ID, or that if it is not the owner, the child or spouse have something current (like proof of insurance) that ties them to the vehicle and picture ID.
My customers feel I am too strict, but I dont feel like ever having to pay to recode a customers car again. Should I lighten up?
Thanks,
Gerry Laughlin
1.Its my moms car and she cant come in.
2. Its in my husbands name and he cant come in.
I have been burned in both situations, where the real owner (mom and the EX-husband) were upset that keys were given out.
We have required that the OWNER come in with picture ID, or that if it is not the owner, the child or spouse have something current (like proof of insurance) that ties them to the vehicle and picture ID.
My customers feel I am too strict, but I dont feel like ever having to pay to recode a customers car again. Should I lighten up?
Thanks,
Gerry Laughlin